{"id":377,"date":"2009-11-20T15:13:53","date_gmt":"2009-11-20T15:13:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ruleroftheelves.com\/?p=377"},"modified":"2010-02-16T01:54:27","modified_gmt":"2010-02-16T01:54:27","slug":"reluctant","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/theruleroftheelves.com\/?p=377","title":{"rendered":"Reluctant"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Birthdays around here are generally a <a href=\"http:\/\/ruleroftheelves.com\/?p=369\">pretty<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/ruleroftheelves.com\/?p=370\">big<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/ruleroftheelves.com\/?p=372\">deal<\/a>.  It&#8217;s the one day a year when you have a great reason to dote on a person and make them feel super special just for being alive.  Of course, anyone can do these things on any other given day, but it&#8217;s nice to look forward to that one day of pretty much guaranteed awesomeness.<\/p>\n<p>For most of my life, my own birthday was an exciting occurence.  Personally, I feel that it lands at a great time of the year, between Halloween and Thanksgiving, two of the coolest holidays. It is usually a day that I look forward to with excitement, however, this year, something is different.<\/p>\n<p>Now, don&#8217;t get me wrong.  I am certainly grateful and appreciative of even the slightest acknowledgement of my presence on this earth. But this year, there are 2 numbers on my birthday card looking back at me that kind of give me the heebie jeebies. The 3 and the 0. <\/p>\n<p><center><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ruleroftheelves\/4119201485\/\" title=\"30 by R.O.T.E., on Flickr\"><img src=\"http:\/\/farm3.static.flickr.com\/2555\/4119201485_77d2f04a5a_o.jpg\" width=\"400\" height=\"305\" alt=\"30\" \/><\/a><\/center><\/p>\n<p>I have always thought that at age 30 I would be officially old. I don&#8217;t know why I associated that with being old.  Maybe it is because cars are considered antiques at 30 years according to some sources? Maybe it is because when I was a kid, pretty much everyone&#8217;s parents were in their 30&#8217;s and of course, parents are old. (Sorry Dad. I don&#8217;t think that now!) At least to a kid and that could now include my kid.<\/p>\n<p>I do know that Pinky does know how to brighten her mom&#8217;s day.  She exclaimed to my parents on the phone &#8220;Mommy is turning 21 for her birthday!&#8221; Let me just say I like how she thinks!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Birthdays around here are generally a pretty big deal. It&#8217;s the one day a year when you have a great reason to dote on a person and make them feel super special just for being alive. Of course, anyone can do these things on any other given day, but it&#8217;s nice to look forward to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[37],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/theruleroftheelves.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/377"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/theruleroftheelves.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/theruleroftheelves.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theruleroftheelves.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theruleroftheelves.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=377"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/theruleroftheelves.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/377\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/theruleroftheelves.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=377"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theruleroftheelves.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=377"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theruleroftheelves.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=377"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}